cross-posted from: https://sh.itjust.works/post/6400327

In case anyone is wondering, it's rqd2.

The definition of paraphilia is "a condition characterized by abnormal sexual desires, typically involving extreme or dangerous activities.", which can inclde pedophilia.

It has recieved 4 censures from fediseer due to the content contained on that instance

Not a good look for Lemmy to be promoting any instance like that.

You can see for yourself here

Update: A pull request was sent to remove the sus instance. It should no longer show up soon

      • pedro@lemm.eeEnglish
        3664·
        1 year ago

        Thanks. I hate politically correct language like this

        • stratoscaster@lemmy.zipEnglish
          975·
          1 year ago

          It's not real, it was a joke made by 4chan that stuck. Nobody is actually using that term unless they're a pedophile

          • pinkdrunkenelephants@sopuli.xyzEnglish
            126·
            1 year ago

            There are actual retards out in the wild that use the term to describe pedophiles unironically. No one likes them. Bully them.

          • Melmi@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish
            52·
            1 year ago

            The term is real, it's even used in scientific literature. The term possibly even predates 4chan, or maybe it's just a success on 4chan's part, successfully laundering a term into scientific discourse? It's hard to find too much solid evidence on the origin of the term. 4chan did seriously signal boost it with the whole "MAP Pride" thing though.

              • Cryophilia@lemmy.worldEnglish
                812·
                1 year ago

                Anti-unnecessary terms. Changing "child porn" (or CP) to "CSAM" is a ridiculous, confusing, and unnecessary thing. And it takes effort away from meaningful action.

                • shagie@programming.devEnglish
                  121·
                  1 year ago

                  https://www.rainn.org/news/what-child-sexual-abuse-material-csam

                  While the term child pornography is still widely used by the public, it’s more accurate to call it what it is: evidence of child sexual abuse. That’s why RAINN and others have stopped using the term child pornography and switched to referring to it as CSAM — child sexual abuse materials.

                  While some of the pornography online depicts adults who have consented to be filmed, that’s never the case when the images depict children. Just as kids can’t legally consent to sex, they can’t consent to having images of their abuse recorded and distributed. Every explicit photo or video of a kid is actually evidence that the child has been a victim of sexual abuse.

                  • Cryophilia@lemmy.worldEnglish
                    25·
                    1 year ago

                    100% grade A pure BULLSHIT

                    If you can't understand the difference between "porn" and "child porn", that's a problem that can't be fixed by calling it CSAM. Because the problem is you're either a pedophile or an idiot.

                    Some ladder climbing asshole got published or tenured or promoted or something for inventing a new bullshit term. That's the only reason it exists.

                • Solar Bear@slrpnk.netEnglish
                  22·
                  1 year ago

                  Making of a big deal about it is what takes away effort from meaningful action. Nobody is taking time out of their day over this issue but you. This is silly.

        • A_Random_Idiot@lemmy.worldEnglish
          423·
          1 year ago

          Its not real language.

          Its some bullshit cooked up by internet trolls, and accepted and used by right wing propagandists, as the latest thing to use to try and paint gay people as pedophiles.

          When, historically, we know the actual pedophiles are the ones falsely claiming gays are the danger to children.

        • ASeriesOfPoorChoices@lemmy.worldEnglish
          3113·
          1 year ago

          It's inclusive of both pedophiles and hebephiles - that is, prepubescent vs. pubescent children.

          So, it's got that going for it. Treating them both the same.

          Unfortunately, it's also used to obfuscate the fact that a MAP is a pedophile/hebephile. Which is bad.

          There are people who have messed up brains, who are attracted to kids, and hate themselves for it. They seek help (usually through lots of chemical treatments), and use the term MAP to separate themselves from the pedos. Unfortunately, pedos use the term MAP to hide the fact they're pedos, so… 🤷

              • pinkdrunkenelephants@sopuli.xyzEnglish
                108·
                1 year ago

                Tell us you're not actually paying attention without telling us you're not actually paying attention

                There are people who have messed up brains, who are attracted to kids, and hate themselves for it. They seek help (usually through lots of chemical treatments), and use the term MAP to separate themselves from the pedos.

                This is a lie meant to make pedophiles come off as sympathetic. They're ALL terrible and there is no distinction between one pedo and another. If there's anything that horrific instance should have shown anyone, it's that. Any pedo who claims they hate themselves for it and are getting therapy are lying to you.

                Maybe actually read what's being said before blowing a gasket.

                  • pinkdrunkenelephants@sopuli.xyzEnglish
                    61·
                    1 year ago

                    Yeah, I'm sure someone who won't put up with you trying to frame pedophiles in a positive light would be a monster in your eyes. Can't have anyone actually hold the pond scum you're protecting accountable in any meaningful way. How else would you fulfill your pathological need to feel needed?

                    You keep living up to your namesake and you're going to find yourself in a gutter with a crack pipe and an empty bottle of Jim Beam, dude. Seriously.

        • Queen HawlSera@lemm.eeEnglish
          13·
          1 year ago

          To be fair, it is not politically correct language, actually it's language that's commonly frowned upon in all circles. But basically as long as the LGBT rights movements have existed with any level of mainstream visibility in America, there have been organizations like NAMBLA and the like that have been trying to piggyback off of them…

          And it pretty much ends the same way, with the pedophiles being shown the door.

          Incidentally this is what the early South Park episode about the National Association of Marlon Brando Look Alikes getting mad at NAMBLA (the irl NAtional Man Boy Love Association) for stealing their acronym is poking fun at.