I’d only use sshfs if there’s no other alternative. Like if you had to copy over a slow internet link and sync wasn’t available.

NFS is fine for local network filesystems. I use it everywhere and it’s great. Learn to use autos and NFS is just automatic everywhere you need it.

Not free for all os’s though.

tools for my docker host with most services running on it truenas for my truenas host p01-p03 for my VPSs gpu-linux for my AI art and LLM machine

desktops and laptops are all misc strings that windows or Linux comes up with at install time