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Oh, then there’s hope :) It sounds like there’s been a lot of introspection and a will to change course. Does she feel the same?
For me I’ve been the one saying that our current lifestyle is not working for me. I’ve been saying it for 6 months and I don’t know what more I can do at this point. I wish I had hope. We have good days, but the fundamental issues remain.

I’m sorry to hear that. How are you doing now? If you don’t mind me asking, if there was a point where things were still salvageable, do you think you were both aware of the direction things were heading? Did the realization come at the same time for both of you, or at different times that it was beyond that point? What were the critical signs?

This reminds me of some issues in my relationship. Some problems that never gets solved.

Same, I migrated storage to nextcloud on hetzner, but I’ll keep my protonmail and a cheaper proton subscription than I had before if possible, or else just the free tier. I’m just not sure their heart is in the right place. For example they have social media presence on basically all platforms including X, instagram, tiktok, linkedin, reddit, threads, facebook, whatsapp, etc, but they closed down their mastodon account because of lack of resources.

You can also contribute if you feel some content is missing, start a community or contribute things to an existing one. Quality is the result of care.

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