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  • Signtist@lemm.eetoLeft-Handed@sopuli.xyzNew parents of left handers
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    3 months ago

    Growing up my family only had one pair of scissors, and they had a big, bulky plastic handle that was curved specifically for right-hand use. It was the most uncomfortable thing to use, and my parents refused to buy a second set of scissors when the one we had was “perfectly usable.” Please, buy your lefty kid some scissors that don’t dig into their skin when they try to force their fingers into the handles backwards.




  • As I mentioned, I have a wife who I live with and spend time with every day. We met online, and only later realized that we went to the same school, but were in different grades. We probably saw each other on multiple occasions, but we were just strangers then. I also have plenty of local friends who I spend time with as well. However, I live in completely different states from some of my oldest friends from school. We voice chat online every week, and meet up in person every few years.

    I have a couple groups of people who I play video games and tabletop games with online who I’ve never even seen in real life, and wouldn’t even recognize walking down the street, but we’ve known each other for years and have real, meaningful connections. Two of the friends from one group even realized they live near one another, and have since begun dating, making plans to move in together soon.

    And yes, I am a part of several online communities in forums, sites like Lemmy, and elsewhere that I keep up with. We have nice conversations and heated arguments. We help each other with problems and questions. We’re simply a group that any member knows they can turn to when they need to connect with someone.

    Life is complicated, and there are an insane amount of different ways to connect with people. Amazingly, some of those are through the internet. The idea that some connections are real and the others are fake is complete bullshit, and you’re clearly making a bad argument in bad faith to let off some steam.




  • Haha, we’re in a digital age, buddy. Computers are nothing more than the latest way to connect real people in real ways. Sure, bots exist, just like spam telephone callers exist and were probably major issues when that was the main way for people to connect with one another across large distances, but you’re not going to stop it by covering your ears and denying the existence of every person you can’t physically see.

    I have a wife and family, I have friends, and I have online communities I care about; they’re all just different legitimate social circles. We may not have evolved for it, but we’re living it anyway, and the faster you adapt to that, the better.




  • Don’t fight for yourself, fight for the community.

    It doesn’t matter what I want, it matters what the community as a whole wants, and we want more than just pirating. Nobody’s hiding, we’re just not missing the forest for the trees; it’s not honesty in discussion to boil and entire group of people down to the desires of just the few people in this thread, it’s just being self-centered.

    If you want to talk about what you as an individual want, feel free, but don’t act like it’s the definitive thing to discuss when the community is greater than all of us.




  • I was really surprised they decided to use Kalos for the next Legends game. I was sure it’d be Johto. I’m not sure what to think about it; Legends Arceus felt like The Pokemon Company was finally realizing that wild pokemon should be… wild. This new game looks like it’s much more modern, though - how can they capture that same feeling of expedition and exploration in a developed landscape?

    Edit: Apparently it’s set entirely within Lumiose City. I’m pretty convinced now that it’s going to have nothing in common with the previous Legends game, which is a real shame. All that game needed was a bit more attention - that a sequel would’ve allowed for - and it would have been the best representation of pokemon ever.

    There’s a reason all the kids in the late-90’s ran around their respective playgrounds pretending that ferocious wild pokemon were attacking them; that’s what everyone imagined future games would be like. But that was back when the games were only held back by the gameboy hardware, rather than The Pokemon Company’s current unwillingness to give games the developmental resources they need.





  • Nobody’s ever heard of it; I’ve been singing its praises since 2006, and I’ve never met another person in real life who’s heard of it. It’s an amazing game set in a slightly-steampunk world where cars have only recently been invented, but giant steam-powered mechs were invented around the same time as well. The story’s interesting, but the real fun comes from how much freedom the game gives in how you want to play it:

    You can customize your character’s clothes, you can be a good guy, you can be a jerk who charges his friends for every little favor, you can just straight-up be a villain, you can hustle pool, you can play in a band with a bunch of different instruments, each with their own mini game associated with playing them, you can extort or save an orphanage, you can buy and decorate an apartment, then play a dating sim with some of the characters, and that’s all before you factor in the giant mech, which you can customize with a bunch of different pieces and use to fight in a colosseum, explore ruins for treasure, excavate fossils to save a museum, fight giant bosses, transport goods and passengers, and even turn it into an airplane to fly around in.

    And that’s all in a PS2 game! Sure, all of the features are limited by both the hardware and the inclusion of so many other features, but they’re all fun, and the graphics look great. I rarely play any game more than once, and I’ve played this game well over a dozen times. It’s helped by the different endings depending on how you play your character, but even the parts that are the same between playthroughs are still fun every time. It’s my favorite game of all time by a huge margin.




  • Signtist@lemm.eetoFediverse@lemmy.worldSomeone needs help
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    7 months ago

    Yeah, people don’t realize that people with abusive parents have been raised to believe that abuse is normal - even good for them. The first major hurdle is getting someone to realize that there’s even a problem to fix, or that the problem to fix isn’t themselves.