Looking to selfhost a family Minecraft server for my kids and nephews. Got it running on an old media server box but it keeps crashing due to not enough RAM, even with just one test player. I was hoping to unveil it as a Christmas surprise until I hit this wall. Anyone have a ballpark for what processing and RAM a small server like this will need?

I came out to 2GB per simultaneous player at peak usage for my lightly modded Paper server (and cranked the render distance up).