I think there is probably another reason for this. Yes I will say this is a good thing but I think a major reason for this is working mother’s.
During boomer’s childhood mothers stayed home and raised children.
During Gen x and melenial childhoods alot of mothers had part time jobs or jobs at the same time as schools(a lot with the schools directly like lunch ladies and bus drivers).
Now most woman have full time jobs. They can’t be full time child care and full time worker alone. As a result they are full time worker part time child care, and the father is full time worker part time child care.
This is not saying woman should not be working or that father’s don’t have a responsibility for helping raise a child. Just saying this is likely partly responsible for this shift.
I’m not so sure on some that. There is a reason Gen x was also called the latchkey generation. We pretty much had no parental support. Either because both parents worked or were single parent households.
Prior to the 70s, dual income families or single parents were the exception, not the norm. As this changed rapidly through the 70s and 80s, child care and support systems did not evolve to keep pace. As these have become the norm, society as a whole has had a chance to catch up, which could be why you see more dads stepping up. Or most likely a combination of this and what you said.
At least in my case, I am aware of how absent my father was and how it affected me, and I chose to not be that way with my kids. I’d like to think others feel the same way.
I think there is probably another reason for this. Yes I will say this is a good thing but I think a major reason for this is working mother’s.
During boomer’s childhood mothers stayed home and raised children.
During Gen x and melenial childhoods alot of mothers had part time jobs or jobs at the same time as schools(a lot with the schools directly like lunch ladies and bus drivers).
Now most woman have full time jobs. They can’t be full time child care and full time worker alone. As a result they are full time worker part time child care, and the father is full time worker part time child care.
This is not saying woman should not be working or that father’s don’t have a responsibility for helping raise a child. Just saying this is likely partly responsible for this shift.
I’m not so sure on some that. There is a reason Gen x was also called the latchkey generation. We pretty much had no parental support. Either because both parents worked or were single parent households.
Prior to the 70s, dual income families or single parents were the exception, not the norm. As this changed rapidly through the 70s and 80s, child care and support systems did not evolve to keep pace. As these have become the norm, society as a whole has had a chance to catch up, which could be why you see more dads stepping up. Or most likely a combination of this and what you said.
At least in my case, I am aware of how absent my father was and how it affected me, and I chose to not be that way with my kids. I’d like to think others feel the same way.