Phantaminum

Learing the bases of programming is language agnostic really. You can start even with pseudo code, then learn the language you will like to work with. Just choose any language that seems fun and enjoy the process.

Good luck!

Jajajaja

Hey I use Apex on Salesforce, does that count in this context?

Apex is part of its native stack and it works good enough, I would say that it is mainly because their database is really solid as you said.

You are right, is not stealing but is appropriation, they take others work and claims to be original. We are pirates, but I rarely see anyone claming to be the author of it!